The Ontological War

The war to define the human self and human existence

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Ontological Ebbs and Flows

February 21st, 2010 · No Comments

In realself ontology terms, the Transition is the ontological path or road from one’s socialself to one’s realself.
Most of the time when increasing realself ideas are explained here they will be described as if people who are increasing their degrees of realself take an ontological step forward, then another, and another until they finally reach [...]

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Tags: DECREASING DEGREES OF BEING · Ego-boundaried Beliefs · Hating One's Inner Self · INCREASING DEGREES OF BEING · Ontological Fear · Ontologically Lost · Socialself Life · THE ONTOLOGICAL WAR · The Best One Will Ever Be · The Transition

Ann: And, uh, we haven’t had sex. Right?

February 21st, 2010 · No Comments

In Sex, Lies, and Videotape, Ann and Graham are talking in a café, and Ann tells Graham “something personal”:
Ann: I think that, um … I think that sex is overrated. I think that people place far too much importance on it. And I think that stuff about women wantin’ it just as bad as men [...]

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Tags: FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE · INCREASING DEGREES OF BEING · Movies · Ontological Friendship · Ontological Love · Realself-to-Realself · SEXUALITY · Sex · Sex Is a Realself Event · Sex Lies and Videotape · Socialself-to-Socialself · The Best One Will Ever Be

The Realself in the Socialself World Forest

February 16th, 2010 · No Comments

I started this blog mostly to explain the battle between those who think we should become more our realselves and those who think we should reject that self, but I’ve come to realize that I also need to spend more time explaining what the basic ontological terms mean.
To digress for a moment, I live in [...]

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Tags: Good Alienation · INCREASING DEGREES OF BEING · Ontological Worlds · Socialself Life · The Best One Will Ever Be · The Realself World · The Socialself World · The Transition

A Post: Laing and Far Horizons

September 3rd, 2007 · No Comments

This post is a reply to a poster who had written that, among other reasons, he didn’t like R. D. Laing because he wrote some of his books mainly for the money, he had sex with numerous women, he had sex with some of his patients, and so on. The poster also quoted William S. [...]

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Tags: Ego-boundaried Beliefs · Everything Can Be Spun · Hating One's Inner Self · INCREASING DEGREES OF BEING · Ontological Fear · SEXUALITY · Sex · Sex Is a Realself Event · The Best One Will Ever Be · The Ego Boundary · The Transition

A Post: Is Mental Illness Incurable?

September 3rd, 2007 · No Comments

I post to various discussion groups, and I’m going to include a few of those posts here, with possibly minor changes to them. For copyright reasons, I will not include the full post of the other poster.
In this post I reply to a poster who had written that people who have schizophrenia do not have [...]

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Tags: Bad Alienation · DECREASING DEGREES OF BEING · Ego-boundaried Beliefs · Good Alienation · Hating One's Inner Self · INCREASING DEGREES OF BEING · Mental Illness · Ontological Fear · Ontologically Lost · The Best One Will Ever Be · The Transition